Friend, sister, lover, partner. Pick none.

Friend. Sister (big or little or big little, little big). Play cousin. Mother. Lover. Partner.

You don’t have to say which one right now. You don’t have to know.

Feminine energetic based love and care, intimacy, that won’t fit in a category isn’t confusion. It’s precision. It’s the boxes that are imprecise. Love isn't meant to be optimized, efficient or even "made legible" even when it’s clearly felt. It is dynamic.

WHO THIS IS FOR

Women. Trans women. Nonbinary people who feel at home in sisterhood or kinship, even some of the time.

WHAT IT IS

A numbered edition, not an app launch. Forty people this first quarter. More only when there’s room to do it in the manner it’s called to be done.
No swiping. No photo-first profiles. You come in through questions.
No box to check at the door. If you’re open to romance, touch, call or FT, physical meeting with someone, all of that stays private. It’s only revealed when it’s mutual.

HOW YOU COME IN

01
Ask
A short form: your email, your Instagram handle, and three questions. No photos, no profile.
02
Prove the account
We send a code to your Instagram DMs. You send it back. That's it.
03
Meet
A fifteen-minute video call on Signal with a woman or nonbinary person a part of the founding circle. Live, never recorded. They'll ask you to do one small thing on the spot, so we both know we're real.
04
Welcome
If it's a yes, your application is deleted and you get a receipt saying so.
05
First act
Your first instructions: leave a note for a woman you haven't met yet.

WHAT WE KEEP, AND FOR HOW LONG

Your answers to the three questions: Deleted on acceptance, or 30 days after any other decision. Once you’re in, you can post them on an optional page, or share them with someone you link with.
Instagram handle: Deleted on acceptance, or 30 days after any other decision. Once you’re in, you can add it to your link info if you want to.
The video call: Never recorded
Your face: Seen live on the call. Never stored.
Email and first name: Kept. If the first edition grows into something larger, each group folds into the next, so these carry forward.
Note codes: Expire when the edition ends

Guaranteed deleted. Your verification info isn’t stored with us. It’s used to verify you and nothing else.

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